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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Just speaking generally and not just this situation, for me it's a matter of trust.

Plenty of times I am totally ready to sleep with and am attracted to the guy. Like, really want to sleep with him. But I don't want to sleep with someone who doesn't like me and may just want to sleep with me a few times or until someone better comes along. It would be awful to sleep with a guy and then have him ghost me or never call me again.

[b]Women risk a lot emotionally and physically when they have sex - pregnancy, stds, emotional attachment.[/b] I want to make sure the guy likes me and isn't a jerk before I sleep with him. Physical desire is not the issue. If by the third date, I am not attracted to him enough to sleep with him I don't keep dating him. I have better things to do. The extra time is to figure out if he is a nice person, likes me, I like his personality etc.

Any guy can be charming and pretend to like a girl for three or so dates.[/quote]

Men risk all of those things too.

Obviously, men can't get pregnant. But if you unexpectedly get someone pregnant, that certainly affects you.[/quote]

I was just having a conversation with a friend how guys try to get you to go hone with them after the first coffee date.  Clearly they aren't worried about risking emotional and physical to have sex with a virtual stranger! OP, I'm with you.  I always thought my husband was clever because he let me chase him a little.  He showed he was interested but didn't pressure me for sex which had me trying to put the moves on him.[/quote]

I don't most guys try to get sex on the first date. And yeah, smart guys who want a relationship will play it cool.[/quote]

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