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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]this is why mandatory paternity tests should be the law of the land. the moment a kid is popped out, there needs to be a paternity test administered before the father is put down on the birth certificate[/quote]

Will never happen, would interrupt the female gravy train.[/quote]

It'll never happen because who's going to pay for it? I'm certainly not paying for paternity tests on my child when I know for certain they're my husband's. And I don't think taxpayers want to pay those bills out of their pockets.[/quote]

[b]It already costs, what, $10k out of pocket for births?[/b] I'm sure you can find an extra $100 for a mandatory paternity test.

Face facts: The paternity test isn't mandatory because it's in the government's interest to allow women to pin paternity on paying chumps.[/quote]

What? No. It cost me under $500 out of pocket to give birth in a hospital with a midwife and no complications, plus a few hundreds for a doula. Even adding in the IUI (turkey baster) using a sperm bank I didn't get to the $10k figure.

Mandatory Paternity tests, "female gravy train", you guys are funny awful. Half the time, we make more money that the men who knock us up. With birth certificates adapting to the second parent being same sex, and the increasing use of donor eggs, donor sperm, a paternity test is *not really relevant* to who gets onto the birth certificate.

OP is the child's father. I understand his need for the truth. It might be easier to raise that child knowing the truth, and making the decision once and for all to be the child's father knowing the child was conceived by another man, rather than drag out the doubt and look for traits and features for another 15 years. [/quote]

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