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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay all you PUA guys, what do you do if you don't want just a friend and also don't want just a one night stand? Would you neg a woman you wanted to date, or get to know better? Why the rush to have sex by the third date[/quote]

Yes, of course we would. The goal is sex. Anyway, you just dangle the carrot of long-term relationship in front of them, fuck them for a month or so, and then never talk to them again. It's really quite simple.[/quote]

Are you fourteen? You seem to have entirely misunderstood my question.

I did not ask how you get women to bed.

I asked how you would conduct yourself with a woman you did want to talk to again, someone who made you feel happy, safe, capable. Would you still insult and "fuck" those women? Or is the idea of a long term relationship abhorrent to you generally?

Do you have any appreciation for what a good woman can do for your life? And vice versa?[/quote]

I have a fun story for you about this.  One of these guys once told me that I wasn't as pretty as the girls he usually dated, but he was willing to give me a shot because I was smart and interesting. (WTF? I am not a 10 but am decent looking.  He dated blonde cheerleader only types though. His equals, I guess.)

I fucked him for about a month and then dumped him and never really spoke to him again.  I thought that he wouldn't be invested in it either, we were just having fun.  Apparently he thought lowering his standards meant some great life changing difference.  He had my IM and phone number and would call and message me crying VMs for YEARS, I kid you not.  So apparently they sometimes do want a relationship with us ugly people.  We have mutual friends so I know he was still A total philanderer all that time.  Weird.[/quote]
PP here-- before the guys jump on me, I probably ought to say if I had known he would react that way I never would have slept with him at all.  I am not an asshole, anyway.  I just figured this was like all his other revolving relationships, he knew I was leaving town after grad school in a few months so he ought to have known there was no future in it. Believed me when I told him so and all.[/quote]

Haha as a bit of a dog in my younger days (never "negged" to my knowledge, but was aloof, emotionally unavailable, and dickish) I have to say when the shoe is on the other foot it is a total mind fuck.  Only happened a couple of times but looking back I was way too worked up given the quality of the relationships terminated.  Thankfully I matured prior to meeting my wife, or I would have fucked that up for sure.  Been together 23 years, married 20 this coming spring, and reading threads on DCUM never fails to remind me how good I have it![/quote]

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