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[quote=Anonymous]Here is your reason...
We've been taught in our culture that you only leave bad relationships. Especially women, if a man likes you, you stay. You never know if another one is going to come around. So we don't have to skills to identify a good enough to date, but not good enough to marry relationship and how to get out of them. For her the relationship is still good enough to date. You are frustrated because for you it is not good enough for marriage and you don't know why she wont work to move the relationship from good enough to date to good enough to marry.

She doesn't know why either. She's been taught that when she finds a good guy, marry him (and do whatever you need to do to seal that deal). But there is a part of her that knows that you guys don't have what it takes to get married. But it is in a weird, repressed, illogical place that she cant reach.  So she keeps with the status quo hoping it will get better. Wanting it to get better and not understanding why she cant make it better.

Do her (and DCUM) a favor and just break up with her. [/quote]

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