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[quote=Anonymous]OP, the reality is that you can't have everything in life. That's why you have to go into serious decisions with an understanding of what matters most to you, what you can compromise on and do without, and then find ways to live with it. Your husband is already too good to be true. If you leave him, a thousand women will be lined up to take your place, I guarantee. The odds are pretty much nil that you will find the combination of what he is, along with the hot sexual chemistry, and then that he will be available AND will want to be with you, especially given your age, baggage, and kids.

What you can easily find is someone to have hot sex with, who won't want to marry you, and probably won't have much to offer.

You do sound like you have some issues where counseling would help you, personally. But if you don't want to work on that, one practical and positive thing you could do is to see a marriage/sex counselor, alone. Tell him/her exactly how you feel, what you want sexually from your husband. Have him/her talk with your husband alone, and sound out your husband, and see if that need can be communicated. Then meet all together. [/quote]

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