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Actually I can't. It just amuses me when men get their panties in a wad and so selfish about their wives gaining weight, as if it was a personal slap in the face to them!  So hilariously self centered!

And I'm guessing you are an Adonis yourself? Dead ringer for David Gandy? [/quote]

But it very much IS a personal slap in the face!
While dating, I was quite selective about dating only girls who matched my active lifestyle. At that time, my wife (then girlfriend) shared the same views on fitness. I made no secrets about my commitment to physical activity for life, and that I wanted a partner to grow old with BUT to remain active.

Whether I'm Adonis or David Gandy (whoever the F that might be, don't care enough to even google) is totally irrelevant. What IS relevant is that [b]I've not changed[/b], physically, since we got together 2 decades ago.
Have I aged? Of course! But getting fat and lazy is NOT a part of aging. I work a bit harder now to maintain my strength and weight, but [b]that's what mature people do if they value physical fitness[/b].

Obviously my wife now values her cushy lifestyle with ease and comfort over fitness. And I'm not happy about that change one bit. I've never been attracted to larger women. And now that my wife has gained a ton of weight, I've lost attraction and respect for her.
Yes, that's a slap in my face.

It just amuses me when women get surprised and upset that their men lose attraction for a wife who gains weight.

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I am dead serious here.  If body shape is that important to you, and always has been, it should have been one of your vows to each other.  "I agree to love you in sickness and in health, as long as you maintain the same commitment to exercise and maintaining your current body shape for the rest of your life.  If your priorities change and you choose to focus on other things, my commitment to you is over."

People change.  People care about different things as they age and as their life experiences influence who they choose to become.  Most people become more wise as they age.  You clearly have not.  Your priorities are the same as they were a decade ago.  Frankly, that says something is wrong with YOU, not her.[/quote]

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