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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with the single mom PP. What you could do is start building in some time and doing things for yourself. Have a part of your life that doesn't revolve around your child. Spending time looking better will help too. I got a new hairstyle and hit the gym. It made me feel like I was getting some of my identity back. My child is a tween. I think that age is easier for men. I'm sure some guys enjoy the baby/toddler stage, but most of the dad's I know said they didn't get comfortable and really enjoy parenting until their child was a preschooler. Though I have kind of known him for years, my boyfriend and I got together when I was visiting a friend without my daughter. There was a lot of serious flirting that I wouldn't be able to do with my child present. I've dated before, but this is more serious. He's a good guy and I adore him. He enjoys children, which is probably not like most young, single men. [b]He is over 40[/b], but I'm pushing 40 and wouldn't consider dating someone younger. Good luck, OP. You will have some challenges, but meeting a great guy is within reach. [/quote] PP, not sure if your boyfriend has been married before but a 40 year old who has not been married likely has commitment issues. I am talking from personal experience. I hope I don't come across as snarky because that is not my intention. But I wish you luck.[/quote] Not snarky at all. Just realistic as my mother is, in fact. Hek, maybe I have commitment issues. A new 40 yr old and never married. Doesn't mean I can't, but maybe need commitment practice with another adult.[/quote]
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