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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I still think you should tell her she cannot stay any longer.  It's really, really tough love, but your brother and his wife need to step up.  So does your niece.  She sounds 1000% clueless.

It will be the worst time in her life, and she may hate you for it, but it will be better for everyone in the long run if she grows up now rather than having a clueless mom and a neglected child.  She clearly has NO idea what havign a baby will be like.

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So my advice is 
1) tell your brother she is going back to you, and if he doesn't take  her or send her to CPS you will get a lawyer.
2) buy her a bus ticket home.  Put her on the bus.  Watch it pull away.
3) do not answer her calls or let her back in your house.

This may be heartless, but really heartless is her thinking she can care for a baby, and what that will do to her unborn child.  a cruel life that child will lead, unless perhaps it is put up for adoption or she snaps into focus about what really needs to be done.

Go forward thinking about what is best for the unborn child in the long run, as abrotion is no longer an option here.  It is not what is best for your niece today, but so be it.
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