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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is more to marriage than sex.  [/quote]

Yeah! Marriage is about partnership and taking care of each others needs. A man's need for sex is not only a physical need but also an emotional need. I am amazed that people are disparaging that need and encouraging women to renege on taking care of their partners. [b]I feel sad for men who are married to such unloving women.[/b]

DW here btw[/quote]

Oh, please.  Has it occurred to you that there could be very good reasons why some men aren't getting as much sex as they want?  Maybe he does a really shitty job of meeting her needs outside the bedroom.  [/quote]

Right. Because sex is something you barter for. He does the dishes. She gives him a handjob. He brings home enough to pay the mortgage for another month, he gets starfish, missionary sex. He arranges a vacation, maybe the lingerie comes out for a night.

I think spouses should meet each other's needs; but this trade for sex mentality where the woman is the gatekeeper and the man has to jump through nonsexual hoops to be eligible just fucks up a couples' sex life. And I think some of it stems from the message women get from the culture at large that they can/should use their sexuality to get favorable treatment. (The free drinks at a bar being a trivial but common example.)[/quote]

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