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[quote=Anonymous]I haven’t read the whole thing but the perfectly written thank you note feels like one of those norms that has to change. Traditionally — and from what I’ve seen in thank you notes I’ve gotten recently — it is women who must write the perfect handwritten thank you note, and it is the woman who bears the brunt of judgement when they aren’t done to standard. Let’s make things easier for the next generation of women. Let’s choose to be happy for them when they find ways to relieve some of the pressures that have traditionally fallen far more heavily on them. And when we feel discomfort, let’s take that as a chance to assess whether certain burdens might have fallen too heavily on us, and what else we might have done with those hours in our own wild and precious life. Postcard away, I say! [/quote]
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