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[quote=Anonymous]I'm laughing at everyone trying really hard to convince themselves having one is enough. Clearly you all seem to want to see the silver lining of having one. I bet more than less of you deep down wish you could have 2 or want 2. Wanting and being able to deal of course are different things so you're one and done but if you are writing out all these benefits that's f up - you make your choice and it makes sense because you should know what you can handle. I have 2 and wish I could deal with 3 - ain't no way if ever do it - so I tell myself all the reasons why 2 is perfect. That totally does not mean I don't wish in some alternate universe I had started having kids earlier or Had money to feel I could manage 3. I admit this wholeheartedly. And you sound like - to someone who has 2 - to be people who somehow think anyone having more than one is either a dumbass, crazy or wrong. Having even one child I think is a gift - it's not about you - it's about them. Having 2 is double the BS, the pain and the nightmares but also double the joy. [/quote]
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