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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We’ve had grandparents last 4-12 years in $5k a month assisted or memory care. One was church affiliated and took over the costs after year five, which is why we chose it. [/quote] My mother is 90 and has been in memory care for 4 years already. She had a few issues over the weekend and now a cardiologist suggested some monitoring, which they would do for "4-5 years." God help us. She is 3 hours away from me. She wanted to be near my older sibling, who then died 6 months after my mom moved into assisted living (memory care came later). So if I want to see my mom, I have to drive 3 hours just to sit and stare at her. OP: Trust me, being the one who has to drive and sit around a god-awful facility has it much much worse. And yes, it goes on for years and years years. It's a nightmare.[/quote]
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