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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No. Do not contact the new GF. That is weird and stalkerish and will accomplish nothing, except making you look insane.

And be very careful what you tell your kids. This is their dad. If they have a bad relationship with him anyway it may not be a big deal to say you think he cheated on you. But if they have a good relationship with their dad, let them keep it! They will resent you if you start badmouthing him. [/quote]

Since when is telling the truth about what happened to a family to people in the family "badmouthing?" If someone does something bad, is everyone just suppose to ignore it to avoid hurting that person's feelings for acknowledging what they did? When the kids want to know why the rest of their lives will be spent splitting holidays across multiple families, don't they deserve a truthful answer? Why can't she say, "he left me for another woman, and I did not want this"?[/quote]

Because she doesn't KNOW he left for another woman.  She admits their marriage wasn't good and that she contributed to it.  It's been 8 months.  Does it seem like something was going on before they separated?  Yes.  But without proof there is no way OP should be telling the kids that. [/quote]

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