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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been on the apps on and off since I separated from my STBXH. I am looking to gently dip a toe in dating and…it’s not going well!

My stats:

5’0 118lbs
Brunette with nice skin and classic style
UVA grad making 130k
I am told I am quite pretty and sweet. I have no idea why I’m receiving no matches!

It is very demoralizing. [/quote]

Please don't listen to some of the guys on here, I would expect you would be getting more matches as well.  I am 41, 5'10" and am getting tons of matches and dates.  For me you are a bit below my height range, but if you had something in your profile that really stood out I would be more interested.  For me at least, I agree with others, please don't put photos with kids on or at least put in there that you love kids and it is your niece.  Also what are you putting as your career?  I'm looking for a partner not someone to support.  So I am sorry for any nurses or teachers out there you are competing with lawyers, engineers, doctors, directors etc.  Lastly, are you fully filling out your profile?  There are hundreds of 38F profiles so you need to stand out.

For other photo advice, I can say that every woman seems to take the same 6 photos so if you can show a bit more personality that would help.  I always see: holding a class of wine, hugging a dog (same three breeds), photo hiking (great falls or skyline), photo with group of friends that makes me question where you are.  All of my best dates have been with someone with a really great/unusual photo and something in their profile that is bold and showed real personality[/quote]

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