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+1 DING DING DING!  My DH would get a lot more from me if he didn't A) try to initiate when I am already falling asleep, B) make a fucking effort to hire a babysitter or schedule dates and B) not stay up after me or sleep in on the weekend when I am up at 7am with my son.  If you want sex, get the fuck up before I have a preschooler running around.  Otherwise, quit bitching.  There's only so many hours in the day and I am not doing it at 11pm on a weeknight when I have been up since 5:30 and have to work in the morning.  I need sleep.  Get over it.[/quote]

THIS.  [/quote]

OP here.  It's not fair that that DH would sleep in, i agree.  But having to hire a sitter to go on a date as a pre-requisite to sex is freaking ridiculous.  sex is as important as sleep, except maybe to a LD spouse.[/quote]

Did I say it was a pre-requisite?  No.  What it is is a demonstration that you care about maintaining your relationship and your connection beyond sex.  I am the one who said you men are stupid as hell when it comes to women, and you are proving my point.  I am guessing that no matter what your wife might say if you talked to her about this, you would discount her POV, her needs and just feel put upon.  I don't feel sorry for you in the slightest.[/quote]

You did say your DH would get a lot more if B).  Sounds like a pre-req.    I'm sure you're the foremost expert on men too.   :roll:[/quote]

Right.  I said that because anytime we go out together, it is because I have made the plans and arranged for the babysitter.  So the whole planning of it is yet more things on my to-do list.  YOU (meaning any DH) making the effort to create adult time demonstrates that you give a damn beyond sex.  And no, I am probably not a man expert, but let's face it - you guys are pretty basic.  Naked woman = erection.[/quote]

So if he make the plans and hires the sitter, you're sure to put out that night?  And if he makes the plans for every night, you're going to put out ever night right?   [/quote]

It would be a hell of a lot more likely, yes.  And I am never putting out every single night.  If DH expects that he should just go ahead and start an affair or divorce me now.  Every night is not realistic for most people, freak.[/quote]

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