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Oh yes, the old "give me a BJ" line.  As if I am under some obligation when I am taking care of an infant, breasts leaking, using Tucks pads and not sleeping for more than 3-4 hours at a stretch.  Go masturbate - I'm not adding your BJ to my list of to do's.  [/quote]

Is this excuse still valid once the child is 1yo? or 2yo? or 3yo?[/quote]

No, but go read 12:02 and that will give you a sense of why many of us continue to not feel inclined.  When you approach me all accusatory that I am not meeting your needs and that you need a physical release what do you expect my reaction to be?  It's the selfish asshole approach.  If you made one iota of effort to say the things that 12:02 suggests that would get you a lot farther.

You men are really stupid - bottom line.  You just have a glaring lack of understanding how women work if you don't get this.  I am not a sex machine.  If you want me to want it, learn how to turn me on with more than just your tongue.  I need some feeling behind it, otherwise I'm just going through the motions.  Is that what you really want?  That's called a prostitute.[/quote]

It sounds as if you're implying that men are solely responsible for bring sex to the table in a marriage.  Why is it that men have to turn women on?  In a marriage, is the women excused for having to turn the men on?[/quote]

Like it's that hard.  My DH could go at it while I am changing my clothes.[/quote]

Plus, if you want sex, shouldn't you at least try to make it enjoyable for your wife?  You want a faker?  Like I said, get a damned prostitute then.  If  you want a real connection, then create it.  Or stop bitching.[/quote]

But she enjoys it...when she has it.  So what now ?[/quote]

Try to maintain aspects of your relationship outside of sex.  Going out on a limb here but I'm guessing you're neglecting all of that.  And I'm not talking about helping out around the house - you don't get points for helping to take care of your own children and your own home.  Again, go back and read 12:02.  S/he basically gave you a script - go practice.[/quote]

Understood. But what's the women doing to maintain the relationship?  If sex is the only thing the man needs (andrather than walks in the parks, dates,....) why wouldn't you give hiim the one thing that he needs?[/quote]

I'm personally not interested in maintaining a relationship with someone who only wants sex from me.  But whatever floats your boat honey.  I'd rather be alone.[/quote]

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