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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your aren't a troll, your kids just go to the best in state college they can go to. Like most other people. [/quote] +1 There are lots of kids like yours, OP, including mine. My son had a perfect 1600 SAT score and a 4.8 weighted GPA coming out of the Blair magnet. He did very well at University of Maryland and did not apply to any top 20 schools because we could not afford them. And, we had saved quite a lot. It's not unusual and it will be fine. What matters is how your kids do, not that they go to a brand name school.[/quote] +2 Tell the kids you can afford VA state school budget. They can apply elsewhere but if it doesn't fit the budget it's off the list. They should start to look for things they can like about UVA/W&M/VT. Read The Price You Pay for College by Ron Lieber https://www.amazon.com/Price-You-Pay-College-Financial/dp/006286730X [/quote] OP - kid is very set on getting out of VA as fast as she can, really wants New England schools[/quote] So sad, too bad. I tell my kids they are allowed to apply anywhere they want (although I will put a cap on application fees), but they can only attend somewhere if the final coa is at or below the cost of a va state school.[/quote]
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