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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know what is going on with men. When I see the way my 22 years old son behave wow. I mean I get it gender equality great. But boy these kids are just different [/quote] What does this even mean? And who talks about their own sins this way? Does your spouse feel the same way? Did they help raise said sons?[/quote] He is too emotional for a man. He cried when his gf broke up with him. I will admit I am probably considered a toxic man by todays standards though. I feel like a man should be stoic. If a woman breaks up with you, move on, put her in her rearview mirror. [/quote] There are only three emotional outlets allowable for macho men: anger, sports, and sex. But guess what, men are complete humans with the entire range of emotions, so when they feel them, and if they’ve been socialized by people like you, those emotions WILL still come out but through one of the three allowable channels. Don’t kid yourself that just because you didn’t cry, a woman leaving didn’t affect you. You just “put her in the rearview mirror” and that emotion came out somewhere else. Hopefully not through your smashing something or god forbid someone. Next time you feel sadness and disappointment, sit with it. No one needs to witness your tears but humans are able to cry for a reason, and that is to help you emotionally process what happened so you can truly move on. [/quote] You are using a woman’s reaction to events to apply to men. [/quote]
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