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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The issue is you are assuming all the men in their 50s are balding, overweight, and boring. Yes, many are. But the ones who are dating younger women are doing well in their career, keeping in shape, and are very personable (part of the reason they do well in their career). A lot of women in their 20s will overlook the age difference, especially when she compares to a man her age who can barely hold down a job and is boring. She can talk to a man who can keep up a conversation, take her to nice restaurants, etc.[/quote]

I'm only in my 40s, but have all my hair, am tall, lift weights and have other active hobbies. I have a cool sounding career with travel. I am repeatedly told by women I date that that I treat them much better than the guys their own age do. This isn't buying things, it's listening and knowing how to navigate a relationship so that the woman you sleep beside feels comfortable in the relationship. [/quote]

And you also have one divorce, one ex, one alimony, 2 kids, child support x2, relationship baggage to sweeten the deal. Why not date someone in same age and situation?
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Are you really asking why, when I’m capable of regularly sleeping with women who are 25, I don’t choose to sleep with women who are 45 with kids and an ex husband?[/quote]

I think she’s just pointing out the creep factor that you can’t/won’t see.[/quote]

Yeah, I don’t see it. I assume I only have 2-3 years left of this, so will enjoy while it lasts.[/quote]

Hey, I’m a married mom pushing 45 and I get it. Physically, no 45-year-old skin - especially that which has been stretched by multiple pregnancies- cannot compete with the fresh bloom of youth. I’m not shaming you for your preferences.

What I AM shaming you for, as well as your social cohorts, is failing to see that ultimately, you are USING a whole person, not just a hot body. She’s on a strict clock, and I find profoundly selfish to waste her time when she could be looking for a more compatible match.

Like it or not, most women bond through sex - damn oxytocin! She will attach to you, too, an even bigger time waster - not to mention a broken heart inducer, hence even MORE time wasted recovering. It’s a horrible thing to do to someone young and naive. [/quote]

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