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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many people on DCUM just assume that others have bad intentions, including their close friends. That's weird to me. It's clear that OP doesn't want to let her friends stay there because she perceives that they're asking for a monetary gift (which I don't see, but whatever), and will dig her heels in farther and farther any time there is pushback. So you do you, OP. I think it will be awkward this way, but you seem prepared to deal with that.[/quote]

Yeah, I can only think they must not have very good friends. It would never occur to me that my friends only like my second home, not me. [/quote]

And maybe the problem is with the word "friend." Are we really talking more about acquaintances? For what it's worth, we wouldn't let our in-laws stay at our house without us because my SIL and BIL and their four kids are disrespectful and rude and we wouldn't trust them to use anything of ours, much less a house. But our good friends are fine. "Friends" as in people we know but don't spend time with, I'd have to think about it. [/quote]

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