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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mid 40s woman and divorced. What I have noticed dating now is the tables have completely turned. When I was in my 20s, I remember my brother saying you better hurry up and get married because your stock is going down because you’re getting older. Guess what now in my 40s it is the opposite of the way it used to be and men are the ones who have more problems dating than women. I have more attention and more power in my 40s than I ever had when I was younger because I was insecure and felt like men had all the power even though I was beautiful and didn’t realize it. Now I basically have my pic of the litter and no I won’t even talk to somebody if they’re under 6 feet because I don’t need to.
Also, I could care less about money, and I always could care less about money because I have my own. [/quote]

Another mid 40s woman here: I'm 5'8, with hills 5'11. I did date and really fell badly into a man who was 5'10-5'11 (he stated 6' on profile but I could never wear hills and not mount over him, so I guess he lied a little). 
It really depends how shorter man looks like: if he's just thin and not muscular, it gives me a sense that he's "smaller" than myself. If a man is bulky (not fat, but just muscular, has wide shoulders and is confident), then I still feel like he's bigger and is "protected" and can be cuddled by him in bed. This is sexual, nothing I can do about it. The 5'11 guy I really fell into was bulky and very strong. I also liked how we could do it standing, since we were the same level at pelvic area with each other....

I dated after him 6'3 and 6'2 guys, and didn't fall so much into them . Sex was great with both, but just not as much connection intellectually and spiritually.

Connection and personality can make up for height somewhat, but only if I feel like a shorter man is till "bigger" than myself in the bedroom. [/quote]

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