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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think men having affairs spring for high-end hotels for their dalliances. I would say expect more a Fairfield than Fairmont for that TBH[/quote]

This is NOT true. I used to work at the Ritz Carlton. [/quote]

My thoughts exactly. [b]It’s all about the illusion and fantasy for both parties. Especially is the woman is really attractive. He needs to put her on a pedestal in order to cheat. It’s worth it in his mind because she’s so —- (fill in the superlative).

A fancy hotel feeds the ego.[/b] The Red Roof Inn says I’m a bad dirty guy who is into bad dirty women. If he’s not self loathing low budget won’t do. He and she must have the best.

But personally I’d let it go. Stick your head back in the sand for now. You have little kids to raise and that’s a tough to do alone when the kids are babies. They need your time and attention focus on them. [/quote]

Yup. You go high-end when you're punching above your weight as a married man. You need to flash the cash to make the AP think she is just so HAWT that the man throws away his marital vows and diverts money that could be used to support HER and the kids. This works particularly well when the hottie is significantly younger or from a lower social class and used to jokers scraping nickels and points together to stay at a Marriott and eat at Olive Garden. You bring someone like that to the Fairmont and throw around the cash, and you'll be rewarded as only she can do.[/quote]

Not when you are punching below your weight  like a lot of narcissists like to do (aka affairing down). And that is very common. She will think an afternoon at Marriott and a once in a blue moon lunch or dinner at Bonefish Grill are fantastic. She’s just so thrilled to be blowing a man out of her league and hoping he might be the exit out of her lonely suburban existence. [/quote]

Hey - I love an afternoon at a Marriott and lunch at the Bonefish! Let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater.[/quote]

Simpleton[/quote]

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