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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow... didn't realize this was so common.  My DW and I have been married for years and have two kids.  I love my DW very much but we haven't had sex since my youngest was conceived.  In a way I feel trapped.  I love my kids and my DW more than life itself and while I want to have sex with my DW I don't want to force it upon her.  I've never felt that she really enjoyed it all that much.  In my single years I was with women who I could tell enjoyed it by the way they participated.  I get the feeling that when we do have sex that she is "doing her duty" and not doing it because she wants to be with me.  That of course has a problematic effect on my "performance" shall we say.  It has been a very long time since we've had sex and every once in a while she'll realize it and tell me that she feels really bad about it.  I also don't want her to feel she has to have sex because of guilt.  I'd never consider leaving or cheating on her but obviously there is a frustration and a feeling that we are missing out on what otherwise is a perfect marriage.  :([/quote]

Yup, this is where I am at now except [b]we are coming up on 5 1/2 years of a dry spell.[/b]  Divorce is not an option and neither is cheating.  She is always tired at the end of the day and there are always kids in the house who might interrupt which means she never wants to.  I have tried everything imaginable, but she just can't find the will to take care of me. It is sad and I do feel depressed about this on a regular basis, but I am literally stuck.[/quote]

5 1/2 fucking years?? I'm a DW and I can tell you, my husband would have been gone. GONE. Probably over 3 years ago. What the hell has had her so tired for FIVE YEARS? [/quote]

But you are not looking from our prospective - we lose the kids and if you have been SAHM, [b]a lot of assets[/b].  You get to troll for men with your friends.  We have to buy drinks for some bimbo who wants to play games.[/quote]

They receive an equittable amount, but not all or most.  As a matter of fact, most divorced women end up less well off than divorced men.  If she is SAH for only five years, a judge will require her to return to work or input an income.  You guys are staying in these marriages because they are convenient and you are making excuses.  Do you not think your children witness the lackluster relationship.  This is possibly more harmful to the children than an amicable divorce.  Seek a divorce attorney and learn your rights.  The domestic courts of 2012 are not the courts of 1980, 1990 or even 2000.  [/quote]

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