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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I both came from households where our moms made way more money than our dads. My mom made 7 figures (in the 80s!)!and my dad maxed out at 50K. DHs mom made close to 400K, his dad made maybe 30K (and was an academic). Both our parents saw themselves as a team. Our moms careers were prioritized and our dads did more of the soccer dad stuff. I cannot imagine approaching a marriage any differently. Yes there need to be discussions about one person working more / one person doing more kid or house tasks, but that’s very different from acting like it’s not entirely a joint venture.[/quote] You parents were ground breakers! So impressive. I am 50 and make 7 figures. DH is well under $100k. Similar dynamic - he really steps up. So depressing that there is still a very old fashioned view that men need to make the cash[/quote]
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