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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All that money you think you will be saving, you will be spending on bills and childcare. It sounds like your kids are young. Wait until they are older and have sports and you have to tag team with your partner to pick up and drop off your own kid and maybe others to carpool. It is hard enough with a husband. At any given day, Dh is picking up one kid on his way home from work or I get a kid ready and Dh drives kid while I’m making or feeding other kids dinner. It will be hard to do this all solo - pick up and drive multiple kids, make dinner, clean up all by yourself.[/quote] The predictable disaster OP is riding for (unless DH's replacement is in the wings) will be $$$, but some people learn the hard way. This isn't even all about money, is my guess. OP has issues and has projected them all onto DH, it's the kind of black/white splitting thinking that is common with personality disorders, etc. OP will lose half of all assets to DH in court, then have to pay a nanny and other help to fill in when she has the kids 50% of the time. Don't forget to factor in all the therapy the poor kids will need. Anyone cold enough to have another while feeling this way is not right in the head. [/quote]
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