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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Neither you or his GF should pressure him into marriage if he is not ready. It's ok. She might be amazing, but if he is not ready for marriage it doesn't matter[/quote]

OP here. I want to be clear that milestones did not necessarily or only mean a prompt proposal and wedding. But yes, that is one milestone he needs to be mindful as their friends get married.[/quote]

Why? he should get married because GF wants to or because everyone else is doing it? I stand by what I said. He should not be pressured into this "milestone" [/quote]

They've been together for over five years. Relationships need to grow and evolve. They see their close friends hitting relationship milestones: proposals, some weddings, buying homes together, moving to new cities to support each other's careers, whatever it may be. She is getting restless and if she dumps my DS she will have a flock of suitors. And sorry to say he will never do better and regret this for a very long time.[/quote]

[b]You can't possibly know that.[/b] You need to stay out of this and let your son figure out who he wants to marry. Just because she's your ideal dil doesn't make her his ideal wife [/quote]

Oh, bull. Adults can make this accurately make this assessment quite easily.[/quote]

No they can't my mil is a lot op she preferred an ex to me. Ex was great on paper and likely has a great life and partner but she was not who DH wanted or needed.
She couldn't let it go not when they broke up not when he met and got engaged/ married to me. She has ruined her relationship with her son because of it[/quote]

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