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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What bothers you about this exactly?  Is he not spending enough time with you? Your family?

This wouldn’t bother me, because I am similar to your husband in that sometimes I like to go to random places to decompress.  [/quote]

Just seemed out of the blue is all. He’s not hiding it. He doesn’t even really drink beer at home. We never buy it. He will drink a beer in social settings once in a while.[/quote]

He stops because he randomly wants one beer when he's had a hard day and wants to decompress alone before getting home.  I don't do this, but I can certainly understand wanting to grab a quick drink quietly by myself after a hard day.  [/quote]

I live alone and sometimes will stop at a bar on the way home. It is nice to be somewhere that isn't my office or my condo, and have someone else make me a drink. I can imagine the urge would be stronger with a spouse and kids at home. LOL[/quote]

This.  I'm a woman and married, and I've often thought it would be nice to have someone mix me a fancy cocktail and sip it while I scroll my phone before going home to do the second shift.  I have never done this, but think I might be nicer in the evenings if I did...  And I wouldn't care if my husband did it.  Why shouldn't he have some down time to relax, too?  I don't see why this is a big deal.[/quote]

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