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[quote=Anonymous]Haven’t read the whole thread, so forgive me if I repeat others: In my experience it is a question whether the “emergency” is real, unexpected and cash flow related (e.g., a tire failed and they need a new one to get to work and they’d eventually be able to pay you back if you needed it), or just another culmination in a long history of financial mismanagement they have no intention of remediating, no matter what they say to the contrary. Amount matters too. $4,000 isn’t chump change. $25 for mental illness medication is something different. You also have to consider where this winds up. If the long term result of not stepping in is that she loses her home and has to come live with you, $4,000 may be cheap in comparison. [/quote]
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