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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I think what happened to you is that everyone already didn’t like you, for whatever reason. [b]People who are liked and respected don’t get “canceled” for one mistake[/b] or ill-considered comment. If these were your colleagues, there was already a problem. [/quote]

This is not true.  There are many people who are bound to an orthodoxy (worse than any religion) that makes them cut off friends and family who violate any facet of their beliefs.  Just watched a bizarre situation when we hosted some of my son's friends for Spring Break.  We had a policy discussion over dinner on cartel violence at the border and two of them spent an entire day crying in a bedroom.  I want to say that "you are an adult now, use your words to make a policy argument."  But somehow that discussion was so egregious that he has been cut-off as being "anti-immigrant" by those two after four years of friendship (and hosting them).  So just think of how little co-workers could value you.[/quote]

I said to a friend over Spring Break that I don't believe in disengaging from people who hold different views. He looked stunned and said, "you don't?"  I said no but offered no explanation and he changed the subject. Even tolerance is taboo these days.  [/quote]

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