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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn’t have an affair.

But after the kids, my wife let it be known she was not interested in sex but wanted to stay married. I make a lot of money and she implied I could spend some to get a bj every now and again. (Zero interest in that)

But I slept around when traveling from 35-45 and at some point my libido matched my wife’s again. The last 10 years have been nice. [/quote]

My situation was similar. Honestly, especially for men, the crazy libido years last until mid-40s then for many men, your sex drive comes down to a "normal" level where you aren't sex obsessed and you can deal with having a drive mismatch of one a week or less. I think many couples would do themselves well to stay married and sane by outsourcing if necessary and see where you are by age 45-50. You could probably live out the rest of your lives happily if you don't get caught.[/quote]

[b]You have no idea how many women are married to low libido men.  My DH has a low sex drive and his drinking doesn’t help it.  I’m 40 and would like to have sex multiple times a week if possible.[/b]  [/quote]

I’m a 41 y/o male who’s wife has zero libido, reading this thread, thinking “damn there’s got to be married women out there who are in the same boat.”
I’ll sleep better knowing there are female counterparts out there lol.[/quote]

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