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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would go radio silent with SIL and BIL for about a year.[/quote] That would kill op's daughter's relationship with her cousin. It would be good for op's kids to preserve the relationship. [/quote] Too bad. [/quote] I understand why you, PP, would chose that path, but OP has already said that family is important and maintaining the friendship between the cousins is priority. [/quote] But Why?? Being family does not mean you have to put up with being taken advantage of. This is teaching the kids to be pleasers and steam-rolled in life. Not good. [/quote] well, not everyone is so emotionally immature that they have to go scorched earth after some sort of temporary crisis. lots of grownups know that there aren't only two outcomes (to be a doormat or estrangement)...there's lots of gray area. [/quote]
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