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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Prom I paid for my own dress, my own hair and makeup and she was with her 2nd husband and his kids because that was her priority. I went home to change into my dress and she looked at me, sighed, and said "you look like a whore".  It wasnt even a lot of makeup. I had a conservative mermaid strapless dress and felt beautiful until she opened her mouth.

theres more but thats the one that sticks out.

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She was/is jealous of you and your stunning beauty, and your ability to wear that beautiful dress - which you only made more beautiful when you wore it!

I bet you have never let a jealous woman bother you since, or take up any of your mind space.

You slay - and I bet you are stunning!  [/quote]

Not to mention, I bet she could never in a million years wear that dress!  That is what she hated most.  Too bad for her. [/quote]

Not quite. My mom is tall and skinny like 5'9'' 150lbs and all legs. I take after my fathers side which is short and busty. I was crossfit-type before crossfit existed.

She just never knew what to do with a daughter that wasnt like her. Still to this day insists I dont have big breasts/doesnt understand why I need expensive bras (currently a 36F/G) or that I cant be happy if I am overweight.

I still struggle with being visible and playing up any of my assets. I have a body type that looks like a square if I dont wear anything fitted but if I wear fitted clothing it becomes very obvious that I have a lot of shape- and it makes me highly uncomfortable.  I dont wear makeup anymore because I never learned how to do it correctly and I definitely see ghoulish versus amplification but I can admit some of that is likely internalized. [/quote]

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