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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you want to attract a man, do not take the advice of women- especially anonymous women on DCUM. Go and observe women who attract men. Then, copy them. 
Predicting you will see some common themes:
smiling, clothes that are flattering/feminine and look easy to take off, long hair that is “touchable”, not talking too loud or too much or too negatively, appearing confident, wearing makeup but not looking like a drag queen … 
For the most part, guys in real life don’t expect perfection. They expect sex and attention. 
You don’t have to be a supermodel. You don’t need cosmetic procedures unless it’s what YOU want. Invest in your hair and your face and dress for your body. Wear a padded bra if you don’t have big boobs. Get your teeth as white as they can be and smile a lot. Act like you are hot - guys will think you are hot. [/quote]

The problem with this advice is that almost all women on the entire planet attract men. Some more than others, obviously. But putting on an act to get a man is soooo cringey.

I do think you are right about a lot of what you say with most of this. But its not necessary to be like this to attract a man. Like, I talk too loud and sometimes too much. Those are not my husbands’ favorite things about me, but I still attracted many of the kind of guys women on DCUM are always wondering how they can attract and I married a great one (high-earning, fit, funny, good dad, caring, works around the house, etc). One of his favorite qualities about me is my authenticity. I don’t try to be somebody I’m not. I always knew I wasn’t going to be attractive to every man out there.

I think you are also spot on about the “act like you are hot” thing. But you don’t have to copy others to do that.

And I do apologize for taking up space on this thread as a woman but I feel like since I attracted such a great guy I have some insight that could help OP. [/quote]

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