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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's 3 hours a day of driving! No way can anyone just disappear for 3 hours a day without anyone noticing at work. [/quote]

Hilarious that anyone would even think a person could get away with carpooling during working hours.

His choice to sign them up, his responsibility to figure out how to get them there every day. Full stop.  Your job is as important as his no matter what your relative salaries.

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OP here. My job is not important, not really. I get that. Still, I don't want to lose it! Especially over something stupid like this.

[b]I suppose I will have to use vacation time and make sure DH knows I won't be able to do multiple family vacations this year.[/b][/quote]

:shock:   Why can’t your DH take at least two of those days as vacation to handle to drop off and pickup those days ..and I would ask him to take the beginning of the week.  Why should you burn all your vacation time or risk getting fired trying to fit in a 3 hour a day drop/off pickup for an activity that he committed to without asking you first.

I’m very sensitive about this because, though I love my mom, she is one to commit other people’s time and money without even a conversation first. It was a big source of conflict in my parents marriage.  Remember, you teach people how to treat you and right now your actions are saying it’s okay to commit your time without a conversation because you will make it work and handle all the consequences.
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