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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Fly in a Grandparent who is reliable and can drive. Some love this stuff. [/quote]

My mom would be willing, but DH hates me asking her for help like this ("don't make your life someone else's problem"), so that's an option here, unfortunately.

And I get it. He thinks I'm putting my job before the kids, which yes, is horrible of me.[/quote]

Ok these are the sort of posts that are more disturbing than your OP. You have a solution that would work for you and the kids to a problem HE created and you think he’s going to give you a hard time for implementing it despite it being no issue for him?  Red flag x 200000. Do this and he can get over it or solve it another way.

And this is the second reference to your work not being important or worth supporting. Why do you feel this way? Wanting to work is ok. Why is it acceptable to work for him but not you. I think your problems are bigger than this situation.[/quote]

It's always been more acceptable for the man to work. [/quote]

Is this OP? If so why are you working? Because you want to is a good reason. Because you contribute significantly to your household expenses is a very good reason. I would not be ok with my kids watching tv all summer but that’s a conversation that happens between adults who solve a problem together. One person doesn’t just decide to tell the other person they are a bad parent. That’s absolutely not ok. If you don’t think you should be working it’s a different story but that’s not what it seemed from your OP. He doesn’t get to pick an incredibly inflexible job and then just expect you to deal and insult you along the way. [/quote]

I don't contribute significantly financially. I would just make a terrible SAHM. I need to be around adults.

He didn't pick this job. He was just thrown into it[/quote]

You said you make 105 a year! That is a significant contribution. Why don’t you realize that?[/quote]

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