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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century.  I can tell you he is very confident.  So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything.  He thinks he is great looking (he is decent  but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with  this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better [/quote]

Op, I am like your DH. Tall, attractive (I probably think i am better looking than I am 😃). It doesn't bother me if my wife talks with other men or goes out with them solo. I trust her and I definitely have the "she isn't doing better than me" attitude.

There are a lot of insecure incels on here projecting on your DH and guys like me. We just aren't the jealous type. [b]And it's not necessarily a great trait, I have had many women who I have dated tell me it feels like I don't care if they stay or go. The truth is, of course I love my wife but I would be fine on the dating market if single. [/b]That's probably the vibe your DH gives. Some women find it sexy, others feel the need to be possessed. We are not for everyone[/quote]

Yes, they dont like it because it's not strong male energy, and heterosexual women are attracted to male energy.  The complacent "shrug, whatever happens is fine" attitude is very feminine and feminine women are going to be repelled.  It's simply not masculine and those who are attracted to masculinity are going to be repelled/annoyed by you because youre not masculine.  But you dont seem to care about much in life regardless and seem complacent so whatever... not trying to be mean but it is what it is.[/quote]

I don't know you and you don't know me, and I am only saying this to help OP and give her some perspective so she can get insight.

Two things I am absolutely confident about: I have slept with way, way more women than you. That doesn't make me better or worse than you or other men but it defeats your idiotic theory of feminine energy. 2) you are the same poster replying to yourself and ruining an interesting thread where women actually want insight as to why their husbands don't seem to get jealous.

It's not a rare trait, and in fact among my friends who are attractive and super successful it's more of the norm.  But I guess we are all beta cuck Democrat closet gays or whatever is the latest political insult[/quote]

NP … ask yourself why you had the need to have so many women, either they don’t stick around or you really treat women like disposable and never had any solid relationships, never connect with women on higher level, just bam, bam, thank you ma’am, playboy type, whatever, it’s your life, you can live it as you like, I wouldn’t like my son to be like, no matter how successful you think you are

not jealous is not normal or healthy, it is however normal and healthy to control it, not overreact, be able to talk about previous relationships and things that didn’t work, not good idea to get into intimacy details though [/quote]

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