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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand all this "hate" against OP.

It's extremely messed up to disinvite the niece from the reception. It's rude and hurtful to not let your teen niece attend. I agree with OP that the sister probably doesn't want them there at all and is only upset about the parents declining. The easy fix is for your sister to invite her niece. It's not for OP to find a babysitter, go alone to the reception, consider sending her child and DH back to their hotel after the ceremony (???)
I would personally consider not going to the ceremony at all and think OP is being very gracious in going. I also agree with OP's parents. The sister is being a petty, spiteful drama queen for whatever reason and supporting such behavior is ridiculous.[/quote]

I don't have any "hate" towards OP but she did herself a GREAT disservice by not being totally honest and upfront in her OP.  She definitely needed to mention that she and her sister have a history (can you imagine WRITING your sister with all the reasons why), the needs of her daughter, etc.  When you bury the lede, you need to expect to get what you get.  At this point, I am taking all of OP's posts with a walloping spoonful of salt because she writes straight with a crooked tongue.  Her family sounds messed up and she seems like she is a big part of it.[/quote]

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