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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP it makes no sense to me that you would be worried he’s going to have sex with these women or something (?), when if you haven’t been exclusive hes likely been doing that the whole 3 months?

And if he hasn’t been sleeping with them too all this time, why would he suddenly just have sex with them right before being exclusive with you (someone he’s already had sex with)?

Your concern seems illogical. [/quote]

OP: because, if has been having sex with them, then he's lying (because he said he hasn't). If he hasn't been having sex with them, why the need to see them in person again just to say it's not going to work out?  Something is off.[/quote]

+1 This is so true. If he hasn’t been having sex with them, why the need for a 7-10 day goodbye tour that includes an in-person date?

Lots of comments here that women are “exhausting.” Really? Being pro-active and careful about who you are in a committed relationship with and having sex with exclusively is being “exhausting?”  If op wanted a fwb yes I’d say she’s doing too much; but that’s not the case.

The in person dates this man wanted to have are about him, not about the other women. He likes to be the center of attention and have the spotlight on him. If he was even being truthful with op, that is. Who knows what this dude is doing. For all the women posting here how sweet and caring and kind the guy is, grow up. He’s not. He’s an attention whore that likes to manipulate his harem of women.

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100pct THIS![/quote]

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