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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife admitted to cheating early on before kids. I really didn’t take it to hard. But now I’ve cheated 3 different times since finding out and I feel better about the situation. [/quote]

I can't tell if you were trying to be funny, but I had a similar experience. Found out my wife cheated on me when we were engaged. I have since cheated 2x in marriage. The thing is, once you cheat yourself, you realize the sky didn't fall, and its. just. sex. We all have it, we all want it and often with someone new.

I wish we could be less uptight about it. I don't exactly want to know who she is with or why but if she is smart enough to do it and get away with it, more power to her.[/quote]

So she doesn't know you've cheated during the marriage?

And she can clearly expect you to cheat again because "we all want it and often with someone new," right?

Why bother with the commitment of marriage, then? Is it financial? So you can have kids in the societally most approved way? Because for some people the idea of marriage is commitment including sexual commitment, because to them it's Not. Just. Sex. but an expression of emotional intimacy. Not for you, obviously. So why bother with marriage at all? Your'e going to come back to say you do love her but sex is just physical for you, perhaps?

If you truly believe it's merely gratification, you'd have told her and she'd be fine with it and getting her own on the side. Is she, or do you just hope she is, so you don't have to be the only cheater in the marriage? Your post indicates she is "with" other men but it's not clear. Is she cheating on you too? Because that makes it even more a case of: Why be married in the first place? It's meaningless to you and, if she's cheating too, it's meaningless to her. Be sexual partners but why do the pretense of commitment? [/quote]

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