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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I care a lot less after 16 years of marriage. I wonder if people who get wound up over cheating are still in the new and passionate phase? I would have been far more hurt then. Now, I kinda get it.[/quote]

I’m only 10 years married but I also kind of get it. I wouldn’t be thrilled but it’s not like I’d immediately run out for a divorce. I love having sex with DH and we actually still are pretty passionate but it’s not like I cant imagine it would be exciting to sleep with someone new and different. [/quote]

NP. Imagining and doing are very different; the latter creates baggage. Would you be fine with DH having sex with another woman but continuing to have sex with you? So you wouldn't wonder if he was thinking of her during sex with you, or thinking of you during sex with her? Comparing you to her, judging whether he wanted her again, wanted some other "new and different" third woman, and so on? I think my spouse can imagine and fantasize all he wants but the idea of him having sex with someone else and bringing that picture in his head, into our bed, is something that I would find it very difficult to get past. [/quote]

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