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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear God.  It's a butt. Everyone is so sad and angry because every Mole hill is turned into a mountain.

Now is a good learning opportunity about how to confront people and talk about what your boundaries are. But I disagree with the posters who think she should feel victimized here. Infact, I would applaud her for being so resilient and keeping things in perspective.  It wasn't right.  It's her body and no one has a right to touch it without her permission. 
But an immature fool showed off to his stupid friends by pinching a butt. Meh. Life goes on.[/quote]
Of course life goes on, you dumba$$. No one said her life was over or that she needs therapy. FFS.

But this is not a harmless prank.  If it was so harless why the f* do you think she told her father and she was embarrassed by it?

It's no wonder we still have male predators in our society. People like you think it was a harmless prank, and boys should just be allowed to get away with sh1t like this.

I have a teen son, and if he did this, you bet he'd be in huge trouble.[/quote]

I am the pp. You sound so hysterical it's hard to take anything you day seriously.  You're a total joke.
I've been assaulted far far worse and I said it's not okay. But hysterical drama queens like you teach victim hood and it's despicable. 
The girl handled it with far more maturity than you. She sounds like a reasonable person who can take things in stride and keep them kn perspective. You are a screaming Froot Loop.[/quote]
   Going up to the boys and scolding them, demanding to know who sexually assaulted my DD is being '"hysterical"?  Not doing a damn thing about it is letting yourself be a victim.  "It's not ok but we won't do anything about it because we don't want to be seen as hysterical".  Wow, how sad for you.  My 13 yr old DD would have actually screamed at the boys. She knows she can stand up for herself.  Sad that you think standing up to bullies and molestors = "being hysterical".

[quote] According to the United States Department of Justice, sexual assault is “any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient.” Sexual assault is basically an umbrella term that includes sexual activities such as rape, [u]fondling[/u], and attempted rape
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It's even  more disturbing that those creeps targeted an 11 yr old, and you think doing nothing is fine.

An 11 yr old girl feels embarrassed that this happened, but she should not be the one to feel this way.  And you saying "oh do nothing even though it's no 'ok'" is basically agreeing that she should be embarrassed.

I'm embarrassed for you.[/quote]

I dont think you understand reality vs the rich fantasy life you are leading in your head.

This incident happened IN THE PAST. AT A HOTEL. 
This conversation is not about owning a time machine or laying in bed at night Jerking off to fantasies of yourself reigning righteous indignation down upon the rest of society.

This is about a girl going forward and taking what happened in stride. 
Try it sometime. People will probably like you alot better.[/quote]
? Yes, it already happened. But people are saying what they would've done at the moment. Are people saying that OP should go back and find those boys?  That's not what I'm saying above.  But I am responding to those people who think that it was  "prank" (a word used by probably a male predator himself up thread) and NBD that the boys did it.

I have also been touched this way several times as a teen, and I also felt embarrassed and didn't tell the teachers.  I wish I had an adult who told me that I should not be embarrassed, and called the boys out.  I know of at least one boy who did this several times to other girls as well.  [b]One of the girls had a big BF who found the creep and beat the crap out of him.[/b]

I'm betting that this won't be the last time those boys do sh1t like this. Maybe it wasn't even the first time.  These boys feel entitled to touch a girl inappropiately, and until someone calls them out on it, or beats the sh1t out of them for doing it, more than likely, they will continue doing it.  These guys are predators.[/quote]

So was the boyfriend arrested for beating the crap out of someone? Did he go to jail? Did he beat the right boy up? Did the girl like her boyfriend’s sudden out breaks of violence? What happens if the other boys are better fighters vs the boyfriend? What happens if one of the other boys has a gun or decides to get revenge against the girl or her family? Some many questions but violence is not the answer. [/quote]
So, let's stay quiet about being sexually assaulted just in case the violence escalates. Women and 11 yr old girls should just bear the assault so that men don't get into trouble.

OMG.

No, he didn't get arrested. It happened in school, and if the cops had been called, that boy who assaulted me and the other girls would have also gotten into trouble, and possibly kicked out of school.  He did this to several girls, and see, no one said anything, and that's why he got away with it until the BF of one confronted him.

I dont think the boy who punched that creep would  have gotten kicked out, maybe suspended but not kicked out.[/quote]

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