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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have no favorite. I love both of my daughters equally. [/quote]

::coughbullcrrapcough::[/quote]

Yeah, this. I love both my kids so much it hurts but right now, struggling a bit with the fact that [b]one of them is just SO much easier[/b].[/quote]

Same, but I still love them equally.[/quote]

One of the sibling rivalry books says this is a recipe for competition as they get older because everyone knows you can’t love anything different exactly the same. Different things or people or places get loved differently. The writer (siblings without rivalry maybe? Or that guy who wrote the family rules book 
?) said to instead say “I love you both differently because you are different people.”  It’s honest and stops the comparisons between kids. [/quote]

If you are finding yourself having to answer this question something is already off in the dynamic that your child has picked up on, plying semantics won't change that. Your child stops asking because you have confirmed what they believ to be true.[/quote]

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