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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She is not going to give up her AP. But she can do a version of reparation by not expecting anything from her former husband outside of parenting the children, as many have said.  His refusal to engage is a consequence of how you exited the marriage op and the mature stance is to accept it and seek nothing more.
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She may, upon further reflection. It can take a long time for the sexy sheen to wear off and for one to realize the depth of harm marital betrayal and APs cause. The self-righteous sense of “being in love” and “we are right together, everyone else be damned” can take a few years or more to diminish, but it does, and when she truly sees the remaining rubble of the lives of her loved ones, the regret and desire to make reparations (good word, PP) will manifest. By then, her ex-H won’t give a fff as he will be off on his own life path and probably her consider her a bump in the road that helped him find his actual and true good life. [/quote]

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