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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]From what you have said, your child’s father has cheated on you and has been verbally abusive for a few weeks. What on gods earth makes you think this gives you the right to have your shared a child, never tell him, and strip him of all parental rights?  you do not get to choose for your child not to know their other parent simply because he has wronged you.  And his having been verbally abusive toward you does not change that in anyway. You simply do not have the right to do what you are seeking to do.  You have the right unilaterally to have an abortion, which you are choosing not to do. If you have a child it is your collective, joint child. How can you possibly think that this is the right decision?  if anything, it shows that you have incredibly bad judgment and I would hope that your child would at least have the benefits of the best parts of you and your former fiancé as parents.  and you wouldn’t really have your child need to avoid any social media presence due to your ridiculous decision making? To have to always wonder who his or her dad is?  If I were ever to condone someone taking a child away from the child’s other parent, it would only be two to immediate, physical risk to the child, and certainly not several weeks of rubble of abuse toward me combined with my being upset I was cheated on.Honestly, what is wrong with you that you are so self absorbed?[/quote]

Did you miss the part about him kicking me physically kicking me off of a bed?
I was sitting straight up and he kicked me several times to shove me off the foot of the bed. Maybe in your home you're okay with being verbally and now physically abused but I'm not. [/quote]

I did not read every posting and no, did not see that.  It is also not included in your OP, in which you describe that he has been verbally abusive for a few weeks.  Honestly, I don’t believe you are being truthful when you now say he has been physically violent with you.  If that is the case, though, that is of course unacceptable and I would strongly urge you to move out as soon as possible and to where you would want to raise the child.  And, after seeking legal advice, inform him where you.  Do not hide your child from his or her father.  It is simply wrong.  [/quote]

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