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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister went through this. The ex was cheating on her, didn't want a relationship. She moved several states away, to my parents' hometown. She had every reason to think that he would be distant at that point, but he followed her. She intended to leave him off the birth certificate; he forced it.

They managed to stay out of court, but if he'd wanted it he could have gotten court-ordered overnight visits with their child and she would have been stuck pumping for that purpose.

[b]Judges really, really do not look kindly on what you are planning to do here, OP. This is 100% a bet on whether he will follow you.[/b]

You should have an abortion. Do not be an idiot about this. [/quote]

This is exactly right.  Also, and I haven't read all the posts, so someone probably (I hope!) raised this already, this is horribly unfair to the child - stripping him or her of any possibility to know and have a relationship with the father.  You may think he's an ass, who abused you - and I'm sure you're right.  But you obviously don't care about him in this scenario.  But it's a terrible thing to do to a child, and you apparently don't care about that either.  All you care about is what you want.

You're a moderately terrible person, OP.  [/quote]

Counterpoint - no, you're not. Life can be messy and complicated. Kids grow up in all kinds of circumstances and they figure it out.

Protect yourself and protect your baby. This guy had some great chances and he's blown it. That's on him.[/quote]

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