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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Husband here - with two careers and three kids and everything that entails sex 1-2 times a week is very reasonable. [/quote]

So you send cards to her parents for each birthday, anniversary
You send cards or email your SIL, BIL, their kids for special occasions?
you buy them all gifts
You handle the friend Bday parties and gifts
you plan and organize and oversee your kids Bday parties
You do the laundry for the kids
You cook for the family
You field all calls from the school
You find, plan, pay for and take the kids to their extracuriculars
You attend all school functions and meetings
You grocery shop[/quote]

You’re being a mommy martyr. Don’t do all those things. Let the kids play outside. Don’t send cards to in-laws. Have the kids do laundry. Don’t volunteer to do anything at church you don’t have time to do. Don’t attend all school meetings if you don’t have time. Have the kids and their dad figure out birthday gifts.[/quote]

And 
Help with the homework
Make lunches
Do the bills
Make and take kids to doctors’ and dentist appointments
Research and make travel arrangements 
Work out the summer camp /other coverage 
Shop for kids’ clothes
While working out, getting hair or whatever else done and staying on a strict diet so that despite menopause you make sure not to gain any weight or look any older than you did when you met DH[/quote]

I believe that you do all of this stuff.  
I do about 70% of it, and we have sex more frequently.  I think my DH would honestly trade.  He gets pissed that I don’t have a planned agenda for vacations, don’t tell him well in advance about school functions, don’t have the house decorated, don’t make a hot breakfast every day, etc.  [/quote]

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