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I had a friend who did this.   It boosted her self esteem to think she could get a man who was already taken.  More of a challenge than a single man.  So that somehow made her sexier/smarter/better/whatever. [/quote]

Same!  Worked with a woman who targeted married men but was[b] far more interested in one upping the wife "I can get your husband to cross this line."[/b]  The men seemed clueless (or just didn't care--a piece is a piece) about this aspect.  This woman was one of the most miserable people I've ever met.  She was smart, there was no denying that, but she had the lowest self esteem and the most futile way of trying to boost that self esteem.  Still makes my skin crawl.  She was beyond devious.  [/quote]

This. The ones I know seem much more in competition with the wife and care less about the actual man. They have very low self esteem and want all of the male attention they can find...and if the guy is married especially so.  If the married woman is pretty and highly accomplished, they want the man even more because it is more of a 'challenge'.  The sad part is that the married woman does not even know this is happening behind her back.  She was never in the competition so to speak.  The OW finds out everything she can about the relationship from the husband and then leverages any minor annoyances to her advantage.

Sick.  It is BPD/narcissism.  Many of these chicks had fathers that were checked out, left the family, cheated and basically didn't give them love and attention.  [/quote]

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