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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, I am a 45 year old big law partner, also divorced supporting a SAHM with 2 middle school age kids.  Exact same situation, make very good money, obviously not as much to go around as before but dropping a few thousand on a fancy weekend away for a woman I am interest in is meaningless money.

These responses are complete nonsense and likely written by bitter first wives who want to see you lonely and punished.  Ignore them.

You will have absolutely zero problems finding dates.  Actually, it will be exhausting doing on line dating because you will have so many women match with you.  Many of them will be much younger.  I agree with one PP, you need to be fair to them that you are not looking for a second wife and kids because many women in their 30s are.  Even if they tell you they aren't sure.

Yes, wear a condom.  Of course.

Tinder is fine for hookups.  Bumble is good too. Again, you will be surprised at how many younger, attractive women you will match with.  If you are like some of my divorced friends, you may go through a promiscuous phase because it's so abundant, like far easier than when you were younger.  But you will ultimately see that easy sex with random women creates more headache than it's worth.  I can give you some funny and not so funny stories.

Single mom's are my preferred partners.  They understand that when I have the kids, I am not available and I respect that they have the same situation.

Good luck, it's a crazy world out there but lots of great women looking for real connections.[/quote]

Woman here. The huge factor here is that PP makes very good money. Divorced men making up to 150k or so reading this will not have the same experience. It is pretty rare to encounter a big law firm partner in his forties on dating apps.[/quote]

Nope. I am the PP who said he does not make as much as the BigLaw partner. In fact I make about $160k. And what the BigLaw partner said is exactly my experience: zero problem finding dates, lots of women matching with me, including much younger ones. It's a lot of work managing all the conversations. I could easily have a date every night if I wanted to. Like him I prefer the single moms because they understand I'm not available when I have the kids.[/quote]

Well I am a woman and I can tell you I could also easily find a date for every night if I was still online. (I’m dating someone now but have done a lot of online dating). It’s not all one sided.[/quote]

Yes. Another woman here. Guys don’t realize we are swimming in options at pretty much any age. [/quote]

Yeah. I’m 45 and can fall on a dick any day I want to. Great profile and in 24 hours of reactivating it I have 1200 likes- that’s actually the problem- it’s be easier to have my assistant sort the wheat from the chaff than to spend the time doing it myself. I’d rather have 5 legit likes from men with jobs, few felonies, and who earn similar to me (mid 6 ). . I could fill every meal with some D if I wanted, but I don’t.

I’ve been OLD for a while now but I am not looking for long term- just a seasonal or spending on sport (ski, or golf). I’m a high earner and love being a single woman. I’d date cha. [/quote]

Yes we know: any non-fat woman has a lifetime of options.
The point is that as men get older our options go UP while yours go DOWN.
These curves (in most cases) eventually cross to where our options exceed yours (all depends on how hot/rich/fit you are).[/quote]

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