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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, when you divorce, how will your next relationship work or your next marriage?

I can't imagine a lot of men wanting to sign up for a divorced single mother with 50/50 custody or more who insists that her new husband visits her family once a week. Alcoholic and racist or not. If this is a relationship deal breaker, you would need to let your new man know upfront.

And if that's the visiting schedule, I'd guess that you are in the phone with them all the time, too. Do they come over and visit you regularly, too?

And if your new guy isn't an alcoholic or racist, and is uncomfortable with being around them, how will that work? Will you compromise for the new guy when you wouldn't for your ex?

Seriously, OP, you might be single for a long time.[/quote]

OP did not state that her family is racist.  Alcoholic yes, racist no.[/quote]

I'm that PP. You're correct, I misread. But what I wrote still stands. I had said despite the family's characteristics, the OP will have a hard time finding a partner if she expects him to be with her family once a.week, on top of her being a divorced woman with a young child. that's a big ask.[/quote]

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