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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Normally when people post about their spouses, they manage to make themselves look great and the spouse look terrible.

Congrats OP, this is a first. Even your version of your DH sounds like a man who has patiently tried to make you happy by putting up with your obnoxious alcoholic enmeshed family, and finally reached his breaking point and wants an amicable divorce.  Your twisting of the lovely breakfast that he made for you complete with flowers and card, was truly epic.  He "set you up". Wow.

You had it, you didn't take his feelings into account, and now you've lost it.  Next time try listening.[/quote]

This is what I picked up as well.  The more OP keeps volunteering, the more she reveals that she is the issue.  Barely acknowledge her anniversary, prioritizing her niece and nephew's birthday (WTF?), etc - all too much for her DH to handle.  Her DH has been probably signaling to her for years but she is clueless.[/quote]

+1. Before I even saw the update, I thought, well, I'd want to divorce too. [/quote]

OP, I feel for your poor husband.  You're honestly shocked he wants a divorce?  You have clearly not prioritized his feelings ever, you have defied a stay at home order for the last three months, I could go on and on.  [/quote]

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